strawberrytelle:
then i am sorry but i have no respect for you whatsoever. you don’t deserve it. if two people are in a relationship and they’re happy, learn to back off. there are all these other people in the world so go and be with them, why do you have to try and make moves on someone that already has a significant other? do taken people give you a sense that you won a prize, is it more of a challenge that you want to accomplish? going out of your way to try and be all cute and flirty with someone that is already spoken for, do you lack a brain? a relationship consists of two people, learn to count. if you get hated on or shit on because you want to try and be a home wrecker, i have no sympathy for you because you deserve every little bit of it. if two people are happy, just leave them alone.
(Source: alyssa-lenore)
8 months had passed since the two of us has been an officially couple. We’ve been together in our ups and down in a short period of time.
I know I’m not the perfect girlfriend that you want. I always over react, I get jealous easily, My mood swings are like roller coaster, I over PMS-ing.
But I promise to be the loyal girlfriend that you ever had. The one that will never leave you unless you said so. The one that will treat you like a prince. The one that will never get tired of forgiving you.
Thank you for choosing to be by my side. For taking care of me like a baby girl. FOR KEEPING ALL YOUR PROMISES TO ME. I know that sometimes that I am hard headed. I probably never listen in all your “so-called sermons” but I appreciate all your efforts.
As I said thank you is not enough to show my gratitude to you. I will just do my part as your girlfriend. Aalagaan kita lagi at hindi na hahayaan masaktan pa
Alam ko hindi mo din ako binibitawan kahit anong mangyari. Kaya hindi din kita iiwananan.
Mamahalin kita sa abot nang akin makakaya :)
Kung nabigyan ka nang ganito’ng pagkakataon. Isa lang ang masasabi ko. Napaka swerte mo at kung maaari lang ay wag mo na ito’ng sayangin. Dahil sa totoo lang napaka hirap magpatawad at mag bigay ulit nang tiwala sa taong minahal mo.
In my case, nagawa ko yan!
The story goes like this…..
Nag away kami nang boyfriend ko causing him to confide to another girl, that used to be his ka-MU kahit may BF na yun girl. How morbid eh? Kinuwento na niya sa akin yun relationship nila nung girl before and it did’t bothers me at all. Kasi sabi niya nakaraan na daw yun at nag sisisi na siya sa pagiging para’ng 3rd party.
But when I found out na nagkita sila pala sila nung girl nung nag away kami eh para lang ako sinaksak patalikod. Ako pa naman yun tao na ayaw ko pinagsisinungalingan ako. Gusto ko harap harapan sinasabi sa akin kahit masakit. Kahit alam ko na iiyak din ako sa huli kaysa sa magmukha’ng tanga.
Nung nalaman ko yun umiyak lang ako, and sadly namura ko siya cause of andrenalin rush. Simply, nag hysterical ako sa kwarto ko. Sinasaktan ko yun sarili ko but I don’t I felt anything. Kung baga naging manhid na yun katawan ko.
Nag video chat kami, I asked, bakit niya nagawa yun. Sabi niya kasi nag away kami. Sinabi ko sa kanya na if he really loves that girl. Go ahead! Be with her and we will end our relationship. Handa ako magparaya kasi ayoko naman na GF niya ako then iba yun mahal niya. Na habang hinahalikan niya ako and doing stuffs eh iba nasa isip niya.
When I said does stuff, eh bigla niyang sinabi na ako yun pinili niya. Ako yun mahal niya! Na nagawa niya lang yun dahil nag away kami at mali niya. I’m really relieved in hearing those stuff. It makes me feel happy but at the same time e natatakot.
I RISKED THE CHANCE NA BAKA MASAKTAN ULIT AKO. PINATAWAD KO SIYA. KASI MAHAL KO SIYA! ALAM KO DIN KASI NA MAY MALI AT PAGKUKULANG DIN AKO BILANG GIRLFRIEND NIYA.
Right now, where doin’ fine. Mas na-appreciate namin yun isa’t isa.Mas minahal! Parang bagong magBF at GF lang ba :)
Happily, the girl who merely cause our break up. Is the same girl who made our relationship stronger.
Thank you Paulo Erico Valerio Mendoza. For choosing me as your girl. For giving me unconditional love <3
papakasalanpakita:
Masaya ba kayo na nakakasira kayo ng isang relasyon o pamilya? Hindi ka ba nakokonsensya? Napakarami namang lalake/babae sa mundo bakit kelangan mo pang isiksik ang sarili mo sa isang relasyon o pamilyang masaya? Alam mo na ngang mali, pero bakit ginagawa mo pa rin?
- Kasi MASAYA ka?
- May NAGPAPAKILIG sayo?
- Kasi GUSTO mo?
- Kasi MAHAL mo?
Pero LAHAT yan PANSAMANTALA lang naman yan. Aanhin mo yang PANSAMANTALA kung maari ka namang magkaroon ng PERMANENTE. Yung tipong SAYONG SAYO na. Yung WALA KANG KAAGAW.
At KUNG MAHAL AT GUSTO KA RIN NYA, IKAW ANG PIPILIIN NIYA. Pero HINDI DiBA? OPTION KA LANG KASI. REBOUND KA LANG. Kung MAHAL KA NIYA, IIWAN NIYA UN, AT IKAW ANG PIPILIIN NIYA. IKAW. KASO HINDI EH, PINAGSASABAY KAYO. Ibig sabihin MAS MAHAL NIYA YUNG UNA. Kasi KUNG HINDI NA NIYA MAHAL AT HINDI MAHALAGA SA KANYA YUNG UNA, IKAW ANG PIPILIIN NIYA, KASO HINDI EH. HINDI.
Maghintay ka na lang. Wait for the right man for you. In God’s time naman darating siya.
- Wag mo ng paasahin ang sarili mo.
- Wag mo ng saktan ang sarili mo.
- Wag mo ng pahirapan pa ang sitwasyon.
- Leave that situation.
- LET GO na.
ME + HIM = THIS <3
(Source: hoesbeforebros-, via gxbb)
I miss this moments with him <3 :)
(Source: captainmarcus, via gxbb)
This pseudo-relationship stage, for a time, can be fun. Lalo na kung naghahanap ka lang naman ng “kalaro.”
Pero huwag ka lang mag-e-expect na may patutunguhan kayo kasi wala talagang kasiguraduhan.
So bakit ang daming nagse-settle sa ganitong set up ganoong hindi naman sigurado kung may patutunguhan?
Iba’t ibang dahilan. Puwedeng for fun lang. Puwedeng “buti na iyan kesa wala” or puwede na iyang “pantawid-gutom.” Meaning, habang wala pa iyong the real thing, doon muna sa kunwa-kunwarian.
For those who are not in a serious relationship, they would think that pseudo-relationship is better than no relationship at all. It would be fun, if all you are after for is that “kilig” feeling.
Aminado naman ako na once upon a time, may mga pseudo-relationships din ako. No commitments involved. For the simplest reason that they couldn’t commit, because they were either committed to someone else, or that they weren’t ready to commit.
My rationalization, “okay na iyun, kesa wala.”
Ang habol ko lang naman, iyong kilig feeling. Iyong merong nagtatanong kung kumusta araw ko. Iyong merong ka-cuddle sa beach outing. Iyong kapag tumunog ang cellphone, mapapangiti na ako dahil alam kong galing sa kanya ang message. Iyong merong laging kasama. Habang wala pa ang the real thing, puwede na itong pagtiyagaan.
But then I learned that although it was only a pseudo-relationship, the emotions were real. And usually, in this kind of set up, ang babae lagi ang lugi.
Una, you can’t ask him to commit. Since it’s not really a relationship, you can’t demand commitment from your partner. Ano ba kayo? May K ka nga ba magpasundo ng hatinggabi? You will always be uncertain about your role in his life. You can’t expect him to be always there with you. And if you feel jealous of the other girls, you just have to keep it to yourself. Ano ka ba niya para magselos?
Pangalawa, what if you fall deeply in love with him? You can’t be sure if he feels the same way. Baka nag-a-assume ka lang na mahal ka rin niya. Even if you are dying to tell him you love him, you can’t. Because you’re not sure if he’ll like it. Baka mapahiya ka lang. This stage will always make you wonder where you are in the relationship. Or if there is a relationship at all.
Pangatlo, what if you become attached too much? What if you have invested all your emotions and this man hasn’t? What if you remain faithful to him, not entertaining other guys, only to find out that he is seeing other girls?
Isa pang downside ng pseudo-relationships, it is fleeting. When a disagreement sets in, or when one of you gets cold, then that would be the end of it. Unlike in a serious relationship, hindi mo alam kung saan ka lulugar sa isang pseudo-relationship. Wala kang pinanghahawakan. Kasi sa pseudo-relationship, there is no “us.” Meron lang “you and me,” hindi “us.”
Buti sana kung pseudo-pain din lang ang mararanasan mo. Kaso, hindi eh. Real pain. And usually, kahit tapos na ang pseudo-relationship, hindi mo maiwasan umasang one day, may karugtong pa rin iyun. And you will be miserable, hoping to bring back what you used to have, only to find out eventually that the guy is in another pseudo-relationship with somebody else.
Ang hirap, ano? You agreed to this kind of set up for fun and then you’d end up hurting yourself in the process.
Pero puwede naman maiwasan ang pain eh. Puwede naman na hindi mo muna isipin ang future and just enjoy the feeling, without thinking of the consequences.
But if you are certain that you are going to hurt yourself in the process, kailangan mo mamili. You can be happy and live the moment without worrying what would happen next. Or you can stop settling with pseudo-relationships and wait for the real thing.
When I was younger and in a pseudo-relationship with an unavailable guy, a friend told me, “Sige, kung ayaw mong magpapigil, bahala ka. Magpakasaya ka. Pero huwag kang iiyak-iyak pagkatapos, dahil tatadyakan kita.”
Ang bottom line lang naman, kung magpapasaya sa iyo, gawin mo. Ihanda mo lang ang sarili mo sa consequence. Dahil ang “parang kayo pero hindi” stage ay bihirang nagiging totoo.
Usually, hanggang doon lang siya… almost, but not quite.
strawberrytelle
strawberrytelle:
You must have been really special to me. I hold everything in. I try not to let people see the weak side of me or they will just take advantage of it. But some will actually come up to me and try to comfort me but I don’t want comfort. I just want someone to care about me. I rarely cry and when I do, it must have been really serious.
(Source: wuzguccidoe)
strawberrytelle:
No matter what they did wrong or what they did to hurt you, you’re always going to find yourself forgiving them. Regardless if they don’t deserve it, you’re willing to anyway. Cause they just mean so much to you, that you wouldn’t want a stupid argument to get in between you two. Sometimes I just hate how I could easily forgive someone, even when they’re not even close to deserving it.
(Source: gadiellerin)